As you may already know, my wife, more famously known as the lady I live with, recently made the mistake of showing interest in one of my hobbies, so of course, instead of just sitting down and enjoying some time together, I recorded her experience of playing various titles for the time and broadcasted it to the internet. 

After watching her play, I began to see videogames through a new lens: one unfamiliar with typical game mechanics and conventions. There’s a lot about the language of videogames that people who play them often take for granted, and witnesses try to learn that language has taught me a lot about games and gotten me to think about them in new ways. Also, read- Funny steam names

So, to continue her video game education, and in turn mine, I decide to keep this informal experiment going by having her play what is arguably the most important game of the decade: Minecraft. A large part of Minecraft’s success stems from it appealing to a wide audience. It provides players with a massive set of tools and then gives them the space to decide what they want to do with those tools. There is no single right way to play Minecraft—some people enjoy building a house in a cool location and others like to make functioning computers—itis the peak of player freedom. 

Given my wife’s positive experience playing the breath of the Wild, I was curious to see how she would approach a game with even more player freedom. As she is a human who lives on earth, she had heard of Minecraft before this, but aside from recognizing it’s the blocky art style, she didn’t actually know anything about it. For this experiment, I considered having her play one of the beta versions as that's what I am most familiar with java Edition of the Minecraft as it offers but I ended up going with the current Java edition of the game as it offers a few aids that help players better understand the game’s systems, most notably the recipe book which shows players how to make certain items. Also, read- Funny nicknames

She started with survival mode, then moved on to create, and lastly, we played some co-op together. This helped give her a broader sense of Minecraft’smajor elements while still giving her some space to discover things on her own. So, this is how it went. At the start, I decided not to tell her anything about the game aside from the basic controls; I wanted to see what she would make of it by just being dropped in. And as soon as she set foot in her first world, it became immediately clear to me that despite Minecraft is a game that appeals to people of all ages, it doesn’t do much at all to try to help players who are new to it. On a core level, the randomness of each world makes it so a player’s first experience can vary greatly. A player who starts in the middle of a desert is going to have a far tougher time getting started than one who gets placed in a lush forest. 

And that's because major elements of the game are easier to pick up in certain kinds of environments. Unfortunately for my wife, she spawned on a small island with no trees or other landforms insight, and understandably, she had no idea what to do. "WHAT'S THE POINT OF THE GAME!" Every other game she’s played so far has had a relatively clear objective; even if it wasn’t stated directly, there was often at least an intended path to follow. As she isn’t familiar with the idea of a sandbox game, she assumed that there must be some sort of intended objective. Given that the only thing of note on the island were a group of pigs, she figured that they must be the key to progression. "Well..." "I need to kill a piggy" She didn’t. 

Not having any clear objective proved pretty frustrating for her because she had no idea how to gauge how well she was doing. Obviously, Minecraft is a game about players setting their own objectives, but her being stuck on an island, made it hard to even set any of those because she had no idea what she could even do. There are a lot of things in Minecraft that aren't explained in the game itself, and most players won’t figure everything out through just trial and error. However, a few of Minecraft’s core ideas become more clear when the player finds wood. Also, read- Skyrim nord names

Getting wood unlocks recipes that show how to build some of the important things in the game like the crafting table, tools, and weapons. Being stranded on an island absent of wood made it pretty much impossible for her to figure anything out on her own. Nighttime came and as she had no structure to hide in or weapons to fight with, she spent the entire him getting shot by skeletons and blown up by creepers. So, I had her create a new world. This time she had a better starting location, and due to her experience in the last one, an immediate objective: find some sort of shelter before dark. Through getting wood and a little additional help from me, she started to figure out some of the game's basic concepts. 

Now stocked with useful supplies, she found a spot by a nice looking cliffside and built a small hut while the sun began to set. While the experience of her first night on the island was a frustrating one, it did teach an important lesson about how the game works, which led to her falling into the core gameplay loop of survival mode: build up resources to create a structure during the day and hide in it at night. Despite her valiant effort, the house she made had some glaring structural flaws, and she found herself overwhelmed again by monsters. When the sun came back up, she built a more viable hideout, and from that point on, she was able to survive at night time with little to no trouble. While I personally enjoy Minecraft’s core gameplay loop, her experience highlighted one of the problems with it: night kind of sucks. *exasperated breath* Raz: "How's it going?"Lady: "Not good." 

The tension of it coming does give more importance to being productive during the day time, but failing to build something by dark leads to nearly ten minutes of guaranteed frustration, and even if the player does get a structure built in time, if they don’t have torches they’ll most likely just sit there waiting for daybreak, which is boring. What’s worse is that torches are one of the few items that don’t get added to the recipe book by just collecting the materials. For it to be added, the player needs to create a stone pickaxe first. A lot of players will most likely create a stone pickaxe pretty early on, but given how important torches are for exploration and survival, it’d be more beneficial for new players if the recipe book made it clear how to make them after gathering wood Obviously, there is always the option to create things through trial and error, and while I get that crafting a torch seems intuitive to those familiar with how Minecraft works, for a new player, it really isn’t. 

So, during the day, she’d collect and build, and at night, she would just wait there. Most experienced players would probably use the night time to dig a hole and explore underground, but as it took her a while to get torches, she didn’t want to go down too far, especially because she didn’t know if anything of value would even is down there. Around this point, she started having that feeling again of not knowing what the game wanted her to do next. Except for this time, she didn’t actually care about figuring out what she was supposed to do next and instead decided to just do the thing she enjoyed most. "See...You want me to play this game..." "But the reality is..." "I'm just gonna build a house the whole time." Without realizing it, she pretty much perfectly described Minecraft. 

While not having an objective definitely made things a little more difficult early on, she ended up appreciating that Minecraft didna have one because it gave her the space to do what she wanted. In the previous experiments, she stuck as closely as possible to the main path, only occasionally straying off of it either by accident or to complete a related task. Here, instead of just following instructions, she actually made a choice of how she wanted to play the game, disregarding any notion of what she thought she was “supposed” to do. Minecraft gave her the freedom to engage with what she liked most; it is a game with a lot of content of varying levels of complexity, meaning there are things for both experienced and inexperienced players to latch on to. And of course, the biggest pull of the game is... While the actual act of building structures came pretty naturally to her, there were a few mechanics of that took some time for her to get used to, like needing to place blocks on other blocks and not just in the space she wanted it to be. Also, read- Samurai names

Furthermore, while she is far better at using the mouse now than she was in previous endeavors, she did repeatedly mix up left and right-click, leading her to place a lot of blocks that she didn’t mean to place. "God...You're gonna have a whole clip that's like: 'this is how many times my wife tried to take something away but instead she built it." Also, given that my wife hasn’t played any game before where she could directly interact and manipulate the environment, it took a little while for her to figure out that she could even break and move blocks, but once she did, she immediately recognized the game’s potential. 

After a while, I had her switch over to creative mode so that she could have a little more freedom with what she built, and this is when she went from thinking the game was all right to actively wanting to play more. Her time with creative mode got me to view it in a completely different way. In the past, I’ve always thought of it as the mode you use when you get tired of collecting blocks and just want to build something quickly, but now I look at it as a mode meant to make the game more accessible to certain players. The creative mode doesn't explain all of its mechanics, most notably, how to fly, but Minecraft’s core aspect of choosing and placing blocks doesn't need much explanation. 

And without having to worry about mobs ordeal with gathering specific supplies, she could just focus on building. She mentioned that in all the other games she's played for these experiments, she had to constantly juggle different activities and ideas, and that often left her feeling overwhelmed. But with Creative mode, she was able to do something that she hasn’t done much of while playing video games: relax. She took in the beautiful, blocky environments and made choices based solely on what she thought would be the most fun. It's also worth mentioning that Creative Mode doesn’t have any sort of fail state, and this ended up going a long way for her. 

Throughout these experiments, her least favorite part of these experiments has been needing to replay sections of a level over and over again after dying. Losing progress can be disheartening for anyone, but it is especially difficult for players who aren’t confident that they will be able to do the section again. She’d often get frustrated as things ramped up in difficulty and ask something along the lines of Lady: “How many times are you gonna make me do this” Raz: "Until you beat it."Lady: "Beat it?!" but with Minecraft, hours would pass, and she would barely notice. Her progression was never entirely reset, and that helped her enjoy the game a lot more. Even Survival mode handles its fail states in a way that she found less frustrating than other games. Dying interrupted her progression, but it didn't entirely erase it at as she could always recover her items and the things she built stayed intact; she found dying annoying, but far more manageable. Obviously, traditional fail states arent going anywhere, and they shouldn’t as they can offer a good source of tension in certain games, but it can definitely inexperienced players. 

I also think having various modes that only focus on a specific mechanic can go along way for helping new players get adjusted. A mode like the creativity that takes away some of the more gamey elements that exist in survival can give new players the space they need to figure things out. And it definitely led to her enjoying the game way more. After she built stuff in creative mode for2 hours longer than I expected her to, I wanted to try one last thing and have the two of us play together. And while doing that, I realized that at its core, its a game After starting a world, we jumped right into the typical survival gameplay loop: find shelter, don’t die. 

Things were a lot less daunting with my assistance, leading to a night cycle that wasn’t entirely frustrating. Together, we were able to gather a bunch of ofsupplies to make a suitable base and also actually explore during the night. This gave her the chance to focus primarily on her favorite aspect while still dealing with some of the tense and exciting elements of Survival. It was kind of the best of both worlds. I gave her bits of information as things became relevant, I helped fight against the various threats, and I introduced her to other aspects of the game that might be interesting to her. I shared the knowledge I had gained from my experiences, and I think this is kind of the way Minecraft is meant to be played; it is meant to be learned from someone else. Back when I first got into Minecraft in the days of the beta, I didn’t figure out most things on my own. 

Before ever even actually buying it, I watched a handful of videos from a series called X’s Adventures in Minecraft, where I learned a lot of the basics. I knew what to expect going into it because someone who I don’t even actually know taught me. Once I got more into playing it myself, I dove deep into the Minecraft Wiki and tried to learn as much as I could. Back then there were even less in-game systems to help players figure stuff out, so it was the natural path to learning the game. And I want to be clear that I don’t hold anything against Mojang for their game being designed in this way. Minecraft started as a tiny indie title that gained traction because of its unique ideas. The developers weren’t trying to design a massive hit; they were just trying to make an interesting game. And they succeeded. 

At the time, there weren’t really games like Minecraft; it put every player into the position of being inexperienced, and for people who are used to fully understanding games, that feeling is kind of exciting. In a weird way, having the main mode not be all that accessible at first, made it so that Minecraft had to be a game that was shared. I know certain versions of it have a tutorial world meant to teach players the basics of crafting, but that isn’t how most people learned about the inner workings of Minecraft. Most people learned through friends, or through videos, or through discussion boards. The game became about sharing experiences and knowledge, and it grew into something that people enjoyed talking about almost as much as they enjoyed playing. A player's fort inside of a hollowed-out tree isn’t truly complete until it is shown it to at least one other person. 

Minecraft came out at a time where people had more places to share their experiences than ever, and that has led it to become one of the most popular games ever made. Of all of the titles, my wife has a player for these informal experiments, Minecraft is the first that she has actively wanted to continue playing. We’ve even had conversations outside of the game about what to build the next time we jump into it, which is new territory for her as typically once she is done playing a game, she never brings it up again. It definitely took a while for her to get over some of the game’s barriers, like not having an objective, but once she did, she found joy in having the freedom to set her own goals. 

Through these experiments, I’ve found that high-pressure situations often lead to a fair bit of frustration for her, so to be dropped into a game with relatively low stakes and a wealth of time and space to figure things out, she was able to relax while playing. Also, she has always loved the idea of designing her own house, so it gave her the chance to incorporate her personal interests into the game itself, and that made things more engaging for her. In these videos, I’ve talked a lot about how important it is for those who are familiar with games to be willing to teach those who aren't how to approach them, and Minecraft seems to be a title expressly designed around that philosophy. I don’t think that survival mode is the most complicated thing in the world, but a lot of aspects go unexplained, so having someone around to be a guide goes a long way. Of course, designers shouldn’t intentionally make their games confusing so that players will have to rely on outside sources, but it is a part of why Minecraft became the behemoth it is today. 

It is a game that is made better by sharing experiences and information with others. As cheesy as it is to say, it has brought people together. When I think of Minecraft, my memories of it aren’t tied to playing it alone. They’re tied to the countless videos I watched of other people’s adventures and creations, they’re tied to the hours upon hours my college roommate and I spent building everything from a castle to a flying ship, and now they’ retied to showing the game to my wife for the first time and watching her go from being entirely confused with what she was supposed to do to being engaged with a game in a way she never has been before. Lady: "I kinda wanna build down here, man."Raz: "Okay. Let's go!" Lady: "Like...I mean...wait are we in the kind where like..."Raz: "Yeah, we're in the kind where stuff is gonna kill us." Lady: "Oh. But I don't wanna ruin these trees..."Raz: "Wel-"Lady: "Can I fly?" Raz: "No, you can't fly in this one." 

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